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My favorite list for December

Christmas spirit starts to be everywhere, but can we really get into the mood, when we need to do so much?

Christmas time is definitely not that easy for everyone, not at least for us, adults. Before the end of the year you maybe want to finish all the unfinished projects, prepare your house for Christmas, do all the delicious bakings and run around all the cool pre-Christmas parties. You feel tires already?

Relax. This year: don’t make all this pressure for yourself. Try to do less and be more present.

Maybe my good will list for December will help you. Here it is:

In my diffuser: Fresh Kapha from Finnish Frantsila’s essential oil. This is meant to be for Kapha dosha from Ayurvedic medical system, but I found this fresh and energetic essential oil and it is perfect for this darkest season of the year to fresh your home and yourself. Add a bit to a carpet to give good scent to your home.

Drink of the month: YogiTea’s Christmas Tea that tastes like Christmas: a bit cinnamon, liquorice, anise and cardamom. Love it. As a non-alcoholic drink I serve Belvoir Fruit Farms Spiced Ginger Punch. With this punch I offer from my cookie box Organic Health’s gluten free tattar gingerbreads which are sweeten with honey.

Play the record: Finnish artist Aino Venna’s Joulu (Christmas songs) and Eagles’ classic Please Come Home For Christmas.

On my skin: Estelle & thild’s Biodefense Multi-action Youth Serum. This is my third bottle for this year, and I can assure that this is one of my favorite serums that I have ever used. It is soft and rich for normal skin. Now when the weather is cold I also started to use estelle & thild’s Biodefense Multi-Nutrient Youth Oil to give more moisture for my skin.

Asana of the month: Malasana. This is a good asana to calm down and to connect with the earth, to be more grounded. It is a good asana to practice when you need to calm down. Benefits: Malasana strengthens the lower back and core. Plus, it works the quadriceps, hamstring, calf muscles of the leg and gluteal. Also, it activated the digestive system and tones the belly.

How to do it:

Start with standing pose Tadasana. Spread your legs a side of your yoga mat. Exhale and lean forward such that your torso fits snugly in between your tights. Place your hands in Anjali Mudra and press with your elbows against the inner tights. Close your eyes, if you want to and stay in asana 5–10 inhale and exhales. Modify: If your need, add tower to your heel, if it doesn’t touch the ground.

Have a calm and spiritual Christmas time!

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Shine on November!

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Shine on November!

The darkest season (in North) is here, and it is perfect excuse to carry light and warmness to your body and soul.

November is one of my favorite months. You might think, I am kidding, but nope, it is. And I am going to tell you why:

It is time to slow time. Literally here in North we need to start walk slower not to fall down. This is a perfect moment to walk more intentionally, to be more present.

November is a perfect month to turn attention to your inner self and get cozy. It is time to change cold drinks to hot ones, like Finnish glögi or tea, take breaks during the day on your yoga mat or just read a couple page of a good book on your sofa. It is time to light candles and praise the soft light. I would say that November is an official month of hygge.

Also, for me, November is a good excuse to start prepare for Christmas without the stress of buying gifts and all the other things we have to do before that big day. It is just the perfect time, slowly, to start enjoying Christmas lights and to eat chocolate, not to forget all the fun pre-Christmas parties that are waiting (well not for me that much parting this year).

Here is my pampering list for you to make the month even better:

In my diffuser: Last week, when I tried a new yoga studio, I smelled a little spicy, Christmas-like scent. “What was in the diffuser?”, I asked. “It is an essential oil called Thieves by Young Living”, answered the yoga teacher. I bought one bottle for myself right away. Thieves is a perfect essential oil for Christmas season. It is a mix of special aromatic combination composed of clove, rosemary, lemon, cinnamon bark, eucalyptus radiate. It definitely fills the place with seductive, rich and spicy aroma. The name thieves comes from 15th century French thieves who combined this special mixture. High recommendations. You can get your own bottle from here.

Drink of the month: Spicy Sweet Chai tea by Yogitea.

On my plate: dates and chocolate

On my skin: Himalayan Body Scrub by Flow Cosmetics. This vanilla & orange mix body scrub purifies my skin and makes it soft. After this I am addict to Melvita’s Argan oil, which I have been using this autumn non-stop. After adding the body oil, I like to put another layer of Mossa’s Intense Nutrition, Sea Buckthorn body lotion. This season calls for an extra attention to my skin. Oh boy, how the skin feels different when living here in North than it was in sunny Spain. Luckily we have the sauna in our apartment. My favorite routine after the sauna is to do a slow body nutrition routine and do it in mindfully.

Music: Snatam Kaur – soft and spiritual.

Asana of the month: Baddha konasana, butterfly. For us women, we attend to have a lot of pressure on our hips. This asana helps you open more your inner tights and hip area. Make it a routine, do this asana every night before going to bed and you will notice the difference after a couple of weeks. This asana helps you also during periods.

How to do it:

Bent the knees and bring the feet together. Sit tall on the sitting bones (both sitting bones rooted) with the hands of the floor. Open the feet like a book, press the heels together while stretching the knees out toward the floor. Rotate the pelvis forward to draw the hearth center toward the horizon. If you feel any pressure on the knee area, add a block under the knees.

Enjoy!

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Recipe for my super diet – you should try it too!

 

Normally the New Year starts with a lot of promises. Maybe you want to get thinner? Start a new diet? Or did you already get a membership at the closest gym? When you look at the magazine stand at your nearest supermarket you’ll see how all the covers of women’s magazines seem to make promises about how you can accomplish a good life or be happier.

As we know in life, there really isn’t any shortcut to happiness. And certainly a fast diet is not an answer to that. Me, I don’t believe in diets: I have been on one and never will. Also, this year, I haven’t made any hard promises or planned any radical changes. Instead, I will continue on the good old path that I started to walk a couple of years ago.

So this is it:

  1. I will continue eating healthy and a 99 % vegetarian based diet. My whole body feels so much better since I became a vegetarian. Also, when I changed my eating habits, I started to learn how to actually cook.
  1. I listen to what my body needs. I won’t go to the gym to do any hardcore training, if I don’t feel like it. I believe that we all experience different periods in life: sometimes you need more active training, sometimes some softer workouts. For me, in this cold wintertime, I need more of relaxing yoga than hard training at the gym. This I will respect. Before, I would force myself to go running ten kilometers three times a week. Not anymore, now that I know that it didn’t do any good to my body.
  1. I will continue to be a more conscious dresser. That means I will shop less than last year, I will mostly buy second hand clothes or make them myself. Also, I will continue shopping in my own wardrobe. The key is being creative in everyday life.

On this channel there will be more talk about sustainability in fashion. This spring I am going to take part in an online course about ethical fashion and I can bet you, that I will share the information here. Furthermore, I have a pile of books waiting about the topic. I know that this talk about sustainability can be harsh, and you might wonder what I am on about, but it is a serious issue that we need to get more people to get engaged in. And I am not trying to be better than others, I am just a beginner learning about this topic.

So I am sure when continuing on this path I will feel better about myself inside out.

So I challenge you to join me in this three-step movement. The only rule is to be merciful to yourself and others – and think about the environment!

 

 

Eat together!

Hiljattain luin Hesarista jutun, joka käsitteli suomalaista ruokakulttuuria – tai oikeastaan yhdessä syömistä. Artikkelissa todettiin, että yhä harvempi suomalaisperhe nauttii yhteisen aterian päivittäin. Juttu sai minut miettimään ruokakulttuurien eroja Suomen ja Ranskan välillä. Säännöllisen ruokarytmin lisäksi ranskalaiset taitavat yhdessä syömisen taidon – näissä molemmissa kategorioissa kun meillä suomalaisilla tuntuu olevan puutteita. Mutta eipä ole minulla enää, sillä siitä asti, kun kannoin viimeisen muuttolaatikkoni mieheni taloon, on tämäkin nainen oppinut syömään porukalla.

Suomessa olin tottunut, että kotona ruokailtiin jokaisen oman aikataulun mukaan, toki myös yhdessäkin, mutta ei välttämättä päivittäin. Jokaisella tuntui olevan omat menonsa. Usein koulun jälkeen tuli myös poikettua suoraan ystävän luona, ja kun palasin myöhemmin kotiin, oli äitini ja veljeni jo syöneet, ja ruoka odotti kuvun alla valmiina lämmitettäväksi. Opiskeluvuosina söin usein yksin yliopiston ruokalassa, eri työpaikoilla puolestaan taukotilan täytti hiljaisuus, kun jokainen mussutti omaa ruokaansa muovibokseista kaikessa eristyneisyydessä katse kiinnittyneenä omaan lehteen tai matkapuhelimeen. Toki yksin syömisen yleisyys juontaa juurensa epäsäännöllisiin ruoka-aikoihin, lyhyisiin ruokatunteihin ja siihen, ettei meillä ole varsinaista illalliskulttuuria.

Mutta Ranskassa kaikki on toisin — yhdessä syödään vaikka pakostakin. Jo ensimmäisessä työpaikassani Pariisissa, American Apparellilla, tajusin, että on moukkamaista räplätä puhelinta lounastauolla taukotilassa, kun ruokailemassa oli muita työkavereita. Pian kirjanlukuhetki tai kännykän päivystäminen vaihtuikin leppoisaan jutusteluun työkavereiden kanssa. Ja mitä tästä kaikesta sain? Positiivista energiaa loppupäivään. Sen sijaan, että olisin tuijottanut taukotilan kelloa, uppouduin keskustelemaan työkavereiden kanssa.

Nyt kotonamme syömme yhdessä lounasta talomme alakerran avokonttorin väen kanssa. (Mieheni vuokraa talomme katutasossa sijaitsevia työpisteitä eri alojen yrittäjille.) Päivän aikana olen tahtomattanikin tekemisissä muiden ihmisten kanssa ja jaan saman ruokapöydän. Näin muodostuu yhteinen lounashetki, jonka lomassa vaihdetaan kuulumisia sekä keskustellaan, mitä kunkin lautasella on (ah, ruoka – siitä keskustellaan aina). Kätevästi minä opin samalla ranskan kieltä, ja tyttäremme tottuu siihen, että ympärillä on päivittäin myös muita ihmisiä.

Olen pohtinut yhdessä syömisen merkitystä useaan otteeseen Ranskassa asuessani. Positiivisen energian lisäksi yhdessä syöminen kehittää keskustelutaitoja ja opettaa tietysti aina jotain tapakulttuurista — erityisesti lapsille. On surullista nähdä esimerkiksi hotelliaamiaisilla perheitä, joissa jokainen perheenjäsen räplää ruokapöydässä omaa kännykkäänsä tai iPadia. Mutta tässä juuri vastuu kääntyy vanhemmille: me opetamme lapsillemme, kuinka ruokapöydässä käyttäydytään. Kun me silmäilemme puhelinta, tekevät lapset samoin perässä. Eikö ruokapöydässä olemisen pitäisi tarkoittaa muutakin, kuin että tarjotaan lapsille viihdykkeitä.

Mielestäni päivittäin yhdessä syöminen on vähintä mitä voimme perheemme eteen tehdä — samalla tulee harjoitettua sitä muodikasta läsnäolon taitoa.

Recently, I read an article in a Finnish newspaper on how fewer and fewer families eat together every day. I don’t know much about the dining culture in other countries, but this story really got me thinking about the differences in the dining culture between Finland and France. And above all: what it means to eat together.

I remember that at home we did eat together now and then but not necessarily every day. We all had our own schedules: one finished school at 2pm, the other at 3pm and then maybe my mother finished work at 4pm. Or maybe I went to a friend’s place after school. (We do eat our second warm meal around 4–5pm.) Then in the evening us Finns have a little snack like a cheese and cucumber sandwich or some yoghurt, not a meal like in Southern Europe. Eating together kind of means that it is some special occasion, not like a normal, everyday routine like brushing your teeth or reading a newspaper.

The difference in eating cultures between my home country and France struck me when I moved to Paris for the first time and got my first job as a visual merchandiser at American Apparel. At work, in Finland, I mostly used to have my lunch alone in the break room and read a book or a magazine while I ate So did the others – we all ate our microwave-warmed meals from plastic boxes, usually in silence. But in our defence, you should know this: In Finland we normally have a half-hour lunch break, so there isn’t that much time to chitchat with your workmates, you just eat as fast as you can and then get back to work. But in American Apparel, in our break room it felt rude if I started to read a book while there was a co-worker eating at the same time. So in order to be efficient on my lunch break I started to enjoy my meal and really have a conversation with my workmates. And what did I get out of it? Some positive energy, and of course that strengthened the team spirit, too.

But from the moment I carried my last moving box to my husband’s house I really started to adapt to the French eating culture – and like it or not – to eat with others. In our house the ground floor is a shared office and on workdays entrepreneurs of different fields gather together in our dining room to have lunch. So we talk and talk (and of course as a French habit we talk about who is eating what that day). I am lucky that at the same time I can learn more French at the table, and our daughter gets used to being around different people.

Now, back to the article. What that really got me thinking about is what it really gives us when we have that moment to eat together. Besides positive energy, we can improve our conversation skills (yes, even as an adult you can do that) and as for children, they can learn table manners. I think it is so sad, for example, when at a hotel breakfast you see a family where everyone is looking at their phones or iPads and hardly talking to each other. Of course if the adults are doing this at the table, the children will do it as well.

The least we can do for our family as parents is try to have that moment to eat together – to really be present, have a conversation and enjoy that precious family time.

Bon appétit!

Thoughts about coloring books and DIY projects

Luin taannoin Helsingin Sanomista uutisen, jossa kerrottiin aikuisten värityskirjojen myynnin kasvaneen hurjasti viime vuoden aikana. Ystäväni puolestaan totesi tuttavapiirissään lähes jokaisen saaneen joululahjaksi värityskirjan. Niin sai muuten äitinikin veljeni kihlatulta. Tämä on kiinnostava ilmiö, ja jo sellaisenaan se kertoo jotain yhteiskunnastamme. Somessa ja netissä roikkuminen, impulsiivinen mobiililaitteiden räplääminen, näyttöpäätteiden tuijottaminen ja jatkuvasti piippaava puhelin saa meidät muistuttamaan vähän liian monta kahvikuppia nauttinutta, mutta silti tehotonta yksilöä. Ei ihme, että aikuiset yrittävät löytää ulospääsyä tästä oravanpyörästä. Kun sitä ei työelämä tai kuntosalilla itsensä rääkkääminen tarjoa, huomaa nykyihminen, että olisi ihan kiva tehdä jotain itse, siis omilla käsillään. Näperrellä jotain. Zen-värityskirjathan ovat tähän oiva ja helppo ratkaisu. Tarvitaan vain muutama väriliitu ja se on siinä. Yllättävä värikynillä suttaaminen tuo hetkittäistä mielenrauhaa – ainakin joillekin.

Itse ostin kesällä Bretagnen-lomalla erään ranskalaisen hyvinvointilehden, jonka kylkiäisenä tuli värityskirja ja minipuuvärit. Halusin kokeilla hommaa, ja olin jo muutenkin pitkään suunnitellut elvyttäväni piirustustaitojani. Värityskirja toimisi tässä hyvänä pehmeänä laskuna, ajattelin. Noloa myöntää: väritin yhden kuvan, sitten minua alkoi tylsistyttämään spiraalikuvion koukeroiden värittäminen ja ranteeni tuli kipeäksi. (Oliko lienee aktiviteetti liian mekaanista minulle?!!) Mutta silti: värittäminen tyydytti jotain lapsellista tarvettani, ja kuin huomaamatta ajauduin flow-tilaan.

Vaikka värityskirjan värittäminen ei ollut se minun juttuni, oli oivaltavaa hoksata itse tekemisen merkitys. Kun kalenteri täyttyy työkuvioista, harrastuksista, arkikuvioiden pyörittämisestä ja jatkuvasta kännykän räpläämisestä, kaipaa itse kukin aikaa mielekkään projektin parissa puuhaamiseen. Ja sehän on terveellistä! Ainakin niin väittävät onnellisuustutkijat ja eri hyvinvointiasiantuntijat.

Tänä päivänä tuon tuosta törmää artikkeleihin, joissa mittaillaan ja arvioidaan, kuinka onnellinen nykyihminen on. Pitäisi olla iloinen ja reipas, harjoittaa positiivisen energian kierrättämistä, mutta miten se hyvä energia pääsee meistä ulos, jos aina kiirehdimme paikasta toiseen tai naamamme on kiinni kännykässä ja olemme kaukana siitä läsnäolon voimasta? Sen sijaan eri hyvinvointiasiantuntijat ja psykologit kehottavat puuhailemaan itselle mielekkään projektin parissa. Oli sitten kyseessä sen värityskirjan värittäminen, itse tehty kaulahuivi, tiikerikakun leipominen, nikkarointi tai ompeluprojektin aloittaminen, tärkeintä on keskittää ajatukset hetkeksi muualle: itse toimintaan. Yksinkertaista, mutta silti meille haastavaa. Ai miksi? Koska vaadimme itseltä liikaa: aloitamme liian monimutkaisen projektin tai pyrimme heti täydellisyyteen.

Välttääkseni nämä sudenkuopat aloitin tarttumalla kahteen yksinkertaiseen projektiin: muotifiguuriin piirtämiseen (tätä taitoa harjoitin aikoinani vaatetusalan opinnoissani) sekä helppoon mekkoprojektiin, johon kaavat löysin vanhasta Suuri käsityö -lehdestä.(En ole myöskään ommellut useampaan vuoteen.) Annoin itselleni aikaa ja iloitsin siitä, että taustalla soi inspiroiva musiikki ja minulla oli viikonloppupäivä ja muutama arki-ilta käytettävänä projektin toteuttamiseen. Unohdin ajan kulun, pääsin täydelliseen työmoodiin, keskityin, enkä olisi malttanut lopettaa vesiväreillä läträämistä tai ompelua.

Ja mitä tunsin jälkikäteen? Oloni oli samaan aikaan sekä energisempi että rauhallinen. Keskityin paremmin työtehtäviini, koin onnistumisen tunnetta, ja ylpeyttä jo siitä, että sain kauan miettimäni projektit alulle. Pääsin siis itsensä toteuttamisen ytimeen: keskityin tekemään yhtä asiaa itse tekemisen vuoksi, en lopputuloksen. Toki projektissa onnistuminen nostaa omia kyvykkyyspisteitä ja tarjoaa kannustusta seuraavaan projektiin tarttumiseen, mutta huomattavana tekijänä on itselle merkityksellisen projektin toteuttaminen. Toisaalta harrasteprojektien parissa puuhailu opettaa myös meille hätähousuille pitkäjänteisyyttä. Tästä on hyvä jatkaa, ja kun alan jumittaa voin aina palata värittämään Zen-väristyskirjan koukeroita.

 

Tuottoisaa tee-se-itse -päivää!

I recently read in the newspaper that the popularity of the coloring books has increased a lot during the last year. I am sure it is not just Finnish people who has found coloring books for adults pleasant, but it is a global phenomenon in Western countries. At the same time this phenomenon sends an important message about us and our needs.

During an ordinary day the beeping sound of cellphones is constantly in the background, we stare at a display for eight hours and impulsively log onto our phones every half an hour to see what’s going on in different social media channels. No wonder we need an escape from all of this. We need to escape to do something with our own hands to liberate our mind and spirit.

Well, I bought my coloring book last summer when I was in our summer house in Bretagne, or actually it came as a free gift with some spiritual magazine. I was curious about this trend, and I was thinking about starting to draw and paint again, so this was some good practice for getting started – or so I thought. I colored one image, but after coloring one circular pattern I got bored and my hand was tired. Clearly it wasn’t my thing, but I did figure out something: on some level coloring got me into a flow mood and in a childish way it satisfied my need to calm down and relax. I also discovered the pleasure of DIY culture. Of course I have been always into trying new things, but to really understand that making or doing something simple and mechanical can set you free in a different fashion that watching a film or going to the gym or trying out some difficult food recipe.

And this doing something simple it isn’t just a stupid idea, it is making us more happier and more balanced in the long term. And it is not just me, but all those wellness trainers and psychologist are talking about it, too – by doing some simple activity, you get better in the Zen mood, and in the end you are more relaxed. In the real world we bump into articles giving advice on how to be happier or how do recycle the positive energy, but how do you even get to do that, if you don’t have time to yourself, and we are rushing from one place to another all the time? A simple activity like filling in a coloring book is the key for many of us. But if that’s not your thing (like it wasn’t for me) you can find something else, like knitting a simple scarf , baking a cake, sewing a dress or whatever. The important thing is to find your favourite activity that is not too difficult and gets you in a mood where you lose sense of time.

After I recently started to plan my weekly schedule a bit better, I finally have time to start my DIY activities, which are drawing and sewing. I started two simple project: drawing a fashion illustration (which I used to do back in school when I was studying fashion) and making a dress (about five years ago I used to do a lot of sewing in school). The other project is still in progress, but the dress is finished. And what can I say about these projects? Well, I managed to get into a Zen mood, spent a couple of pleasant afternoons and a weekend just focusing on my activity 100 percent, listening relaxing music in the background and forget the time or my cellphone. After the DIY session I felt more relaxed, calm, focused and more in the moment. I was more cheerful and full of energy to star the upcoming week.

Now I cannot wait to start a new project and to get into the drawing again. But I do have a piece of advice: be patient with yourself, don’t too anything too complicated or require the first project to be perfect. If you start to feel stressed about starting or the preparitions are too much work, start something simpler, such as filling in those Zen coloring books, like many of us do!

Pregnancy and excercise

This time I wanted to write about doing sports during pregnancy. For more than two years I have exercised regularly three to four times a week, and pregnancy hasn’t changed that. In the first trimester I continued running (at a slow pace, of course) and did some yoga and ballet videos on YouTube. Then in the second trimester I traded running for walking on a treadmill, a butt workout with a cross-trainer and some muscle excercises for my legs and arms. Luckily our gym also has a swimming pool, where I usually go for a swim and relax after my workout.

Now that I am six months along I have continued my gym excercise routine, and also started going to a hatha yoga class, which was recommended by a friend. Normally, as I mentioned, I have done yoga workouts at home with help of online videos. Yoga especially has helped a lot with my back problems, which started in the end of the second trimester.

Of course I don’t know how much longer I can continue to do sport as much I do now. Carrying my workout bag, walking to the gym and putting my trainers on are starting to be a problem. Luckily I have my man to help me. And when moving gets too difficult, I can always go back to doing yoga videos on YouTube.

Anyway, what I do know is that sports and especially hatha yoga have helped me with my pregnancy-related back problems. After working out I also feel more energetic and healthier. I discovered this once again when I had stayed home a couple of days without any excercise. (It was a weekend and in Paris it was like zero degree, too cold to get out.) After the weekend I felt more tired, ate much less healthily, and felt irritated. On Monday, when I finally got around to going to the gym, I felt so much better after the workout than before. Yes, of course I did, but when you really feel the difference in your body and mind, you still are amazed: just excercise regularly and the effect is enormous!

During the last couple of years I have mysteriously started to repeat this simple mantra (like every healthy guru does): eat healthily (and organic), sleep well, excercise regularly and organize your week better so you don’t have to hurry all the time. All these things together have helped me find a balanced routine in my everyday life. And as a bonus all this has an effect on my body and mind. Not to mention the impact on my unborn baby: when the mother feels good and balanced, the baby has a safe place to grow.